The most difficult aspect of transition is probably going to be different for each person, however I will attempt to make a few generalizations here so that you will be aware of possible challenges along the road. If you have an insight into possible challenges in transition feel free to comment below.
The transition from one sex to the other can be a very emotional one fraught with trials and tribulations. Or it can be a simple process of shifting the physical body to better represent the inner gender identity. It is important to realize here that gender is fixed in your brain before you are born. The physical sex appears to be fixed but in fact can be altered to match the gender identity fairly easily.
What happens to most transgender individuals is that they are conditioned by society to conform to the role determined by the organs between their legs. Sex organs are for two purposes, procreation and enjoyment. It is no accident that procreation is fun. This assures the perpetuation of the species. Whoopee 😉 The mental aspects of sexual attraction and role play are complex. Sexual orientation like gender identity is fixed at birth, so it is the melding of society’s views with personal views that make this complex.
The transition journey is one of releasing society’s views and living an authentic life which is true to your inner feelings and identity. This begins with acceptance of both yourself and others. If someone no longer wishes to be your friend then allow them that space and focus on accepting your natural self.
In order to replace a glass of orange juice with apple juice you must first empty out all the orange juice. This process creates a void which is to be filled by the apple juice. The space is filled at all times, so as one leaves another fills the void. Transition is much like this. For a Male to Female transition as the male persona is released this creates a void for the natural persona to fill in. Substituting another false persona, say of a certain female role is no better than the false male persona. The point is to allow the natural persona to develop as it would have if the body parts had matched from birth.
The best advice for allowing this process freedom to evolve is to let go and release any judgment. Stop trying to please others and simply go with the flow. Pay close attention to what brings you Joy. This is best described as a feeling of contentment and gentle peace within your body, centered in your heart.
For those with an overactive mind, release is a process of patience and persistence. Make all thoughts OK while relaxing and focusing in the general moment. If specific thoughts creep in and they likely will, consciously release them. Say to yourself, “I release any thoughts of how my life should be. I am open to my inner most gifts and allow them to express naturally.”
I wish you Peace and Joy on your journey of Love.
😉 Sequoia Elisabeth
Oneness Ministry 
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